The truth about on and off relationships.
These pesky on and off relationships that keep you wanting him back can go on forever.
This can happen for many reasons, from kids to marriage to sharing a house. But there are other things that keep you wanting him back, and these attachments exist in the mind. I believe you can become aware of these attachments and form an understanding that there is something better beyond the fear of losing this person. Once this awareness begins to take place you will be moving in the direction of breaking free from these circular, hot and cold relationships. Then, the only thing left to do is make a committed decision to end what has been painful and begin to move toward the truth of life.
The truth is, there is love for you everywhere once you move past your fear.
Through my work as a love psychic I have noticed different attachments in the mind that keep many women pining after an ex who she has broken up with multiple times. Many of these attachments come in the form of expectations from her lover that can never be fulfilled or forgiven. The one I would like to discuss now, is about mistaken identity. Where you believe that your lover, or ex lover is someone else who is capable of doing what it is that you want or expect. And then, when they don’t do what you expect, how dare they, they must repent and apologize – or – the woman wonders what it is that they have done wrong to turn away the affections of their ex. This is one of the secrets that keep these on and off again relationships cycling, and keeps you wondering, will he come back?
I’d like to tell a little story to illustrate my point.
The man who you thought was blue.
You are going through your life, and then lets say you meet a man. He is so nice and respectful. He listens to you, texts you long messages, laughs at your jokes, maybe even buys you a present, but more likely just tells you he will. You love this attention, this guy is Shiny Bright Blue. He is a beautiful specimen of a great person and the ideal person for you. In fact you may even like the attention and the attraction so much you might even begin to think he is your soulmate. He is your shiny, bright and blue boy and you think the highest thoughts of him. You may tell your family and friends about this blue guy you met and how he is the greatest guy in the whole world. You feel so lucky and so in love that this man is in your life.
Time begins to pass and some of the shine of the blue begins to wear off.
This man that you thought so highly of begins to distance himself. He may not text as much, or he begins to “breadcrumb” you, and just gives you barely enough attention to keep you coming back. The gifts never came. He is seeing you less, is less attentive, and may even begin to get a bit snarky. He might even flake on you. I would call this “Red” behavior. You are thinking, why is this guy behaving like this? He’s my blue boy and can never do wrong. There must be a reason why he isn’t appearing very blue? And so the woman will say hey – blue guy – be blue!! Be nice, and behave, and be that shiny blue guy I first met. Just text me and listen to me, like I do to you, and everyone can be happy.
Maybe you can guess what happens next after the woman expresses her anger and distress? The blue guy – he turns even more red. Now he doesn’t text, he ignores, he fights, he flakes, he wants other women. He takes no responsibility for your emotions or for breaking any promises. Why has he become careless and cruel. Now, he wants space.
And – you may even break up. A few times.
But the strangest thing happens. The woman still wants him back. She pines for him, longs for him, begs for him in her prayers to return to her. Of course she has felt as if she has lost her soul mate, and that they were destined to be together. Regardless of how rotten he has been to her. She may even blame herself and wonder how she can change to make him that loving, caring, shiny, bright blue guy that she first met. Her life is taken over with anxiety of wondering, will he come back.
She is still in love with the blue guy even though he is now red and is doing awful things. She is knee deep in an on and off relationship and wants him back bad. Now, let’s pretend.
What if – that blue guy wasn’t really blue to begin with?
What if his family and friends and society told him that in order to get a girl he had to be blue. But in secret – what if he is a different color all together. Regardless, he goes blue, and acts blue, and paints himself blue, and does what he can to secure the prize – you. Because that is what he is taught.
What if society and family and friends told you that perfect men are only blue. That once you meet a blue guy, then you will be happy. And so now your measurement of how good a guy is, is based on whether he is blue or not.
So you meet this guy who you think is blue and you expect for him to act like the perfect man you were promised by society. This man acts blue for as long as it takes to secure your interest. But then! He decides, screw this, I’m not blue. I’m not a pushover. I’m my own man. And he begins to turn red and start in with rude red behavior, he leaves and then you want him back.
Often the woman will accuse herself for being the reason for the red behavior.
However, it is not her that is the cause of the red behavior. But still she thinks that if she does her best, and says the right things and does the right things, that he will come back. And so she waits for him. Because once she meets this blue boy – he must be perfect because that is what society tells us. Blue is good.
So now, what if, Blue is bullshit. That your idea of how a perfect man is supposed to be – is bullshit. And his idea of what a man is supposed to do to get a woman is bullshit. What if this whole time you have been looking at your relationship with blue tinted glasses on, thinking that it was perfect, when in fact he is a different color all together.
Expecting blue behavior and getting red confuses you and short circuits your mental wiring. You begin looking for the blue behavior and start trying to force it on him and then wonder why isn’t he loving me, why isn’t he coming back. You are so sure that he is blue, and so perfect, and so sure that whenever he is done being red, he’ll be blue and perfect again. He may even come back around with blue behavior. But the more you break up and the more he comes back, that blue behavior becomes less and less, and red behavior becomes more and more.
In order to break out of the cycle of on and off relationships, you must become aware that he is not blue.
That he was never truly blue. He may have blue in him, and he may know how to present himself as a nice guy. But he is someone completely different than who you expect. And in the future he is never going to be that shiny, bright, blue boy full of promises of love, because that actually doesn’t exist.
Blue is a social construct. We all have been taught that blue is right. But the truth of the matter, we are all unique individuals and are dating in a new faster world. Having false expectations will hold you back in your past relationships and keep you in an on again, off again relationships where you desperately want him back.
However, you are not wrong for having these false expectations. Your mind is on the fritz, you are looking at something red and swearing that it is blue!
You must come to the realization that your ex is most likely never going to be that perfect romantic character that returns to be nice and sweep you off your feet. He is past all that. He is comfortable with being red now, and his anger will slip out with ease. You must stop expecting him to be blue, and accept that maybe he was acting blue so that he can get with you. Then you must accept him for who he actually is, and if he is being red – you have to acknowledge the misdeeds in your heart. You must look past the situation, and not at what you expect, but what do you really want. I would dare say that what you really want is to be treated well and with respect.
If you want true love and companionship you can have that, but you must take off the blue tinted glasses.
You must acknowledge that this present relationship as it is will never be what you desire. You must acknowledge the pain and confusion that this relationship has caused you. Then you must vow to yourself that you will love and honor yourself and get rid of things in your life that hold you back and no longer serve you. And further, you must know that true love exists beyond the fear of leaving your ex behind. Hope and possibility exists for you, but you must become aware that your ex is never going to be that first guy you fell in love with. Because that guy – he never really existed. You just wanted love so bad that you looked at him with blue tinted glasses in hoping that he was the one.
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7 Reasons Why You Want a Phone Reading
In a pinch, it’s great to get a hold of a psychic quickly, therefore, here are 7 reasons why you want a phone reading.
Are you ever so anxious about the future that you need to talk to someone and get some clarity quickly? Have you ever been in a situation that you couldn’t tell anyone about but you really needed to sort it out? Do you have a busy life schedule with work and kids that doesn’t accommodate a visit to your local psychic? Are you located somewhere that doesn’t have access to reputable psychics?
If so, Phone readings are the answer to your problems.
I am a psychic reader out of Ventura County, California which is somewhere near Los Angeles. I have a strong local clientele, but a big chunk of my business is located somewhere else. And so, aside from local events, I operate my business by giving phone readings.
Many people ask, are psychic readings by phone as good as a face to face readings? They also ask, how can the psychic tell anything about me if they can’t see me? Can I trust a psychic over the phone?
I have been giving psychic readings by phone for nearly 30 years with great success. So, I want to give you my Top 7 Reasons why you want a phone reading.
7. Phone Readings are Convenient.
What is the most convenient thing we own? It’s the phone. We all have one. We can use it anywhere from the bathroom to the car. All you need is a good signal and you could be anywhere comfortable for you. For instance, you could be laying upside down on your couch if you like. Or, if you are a super busy person with work, you can plan a phone reading for your trip home. However, if you have kids that you need to take care of and you really just need to talk to someone, then maybe a text reading while the kids are watching TV is for you.
6. Worldwide.
You can be in India, Paris, China, Texas, East Coast or West and you can still get a psychic reading by phone at a time that is convenient for you. And your psychic could be anywhere, meaning I can work from anywhere I wish. It’s a win for both of us.
5. Discreet and Private.
Do you need to talk to someone who can’t recognize you in court? Is there a situation that you are in that you don’t want your family or significant other to know about? Then one of the beauties of phone readings is I can’t see you. I can’t see what you look like, and most of the time I don’t even get your last name. I don’t know who you are talking about, all I know is your situation. Therefore, it is completely private and almost anonymous aside from me having your phone number and birthdate.
4. Openness and Honesty.
The power of an anonymous phone call to someone you trust brings a level of honesty that is unparalleled. You can confess and you can complain. You can express your side of the story in an open and unhindered way. As well, during a phone reading you can be honest with yourself and with another person. And in return I am able to be completely honest with you with what I see in the cards.
3. Intimate.
Have you ever had a really meaningful phone conversation with a loved one. For example, a mother or a best friend or a new boyfriend. Then you know, when you are talking on the phone, there is an intimate connection, and you feel more free to express your feelings.
2. No Judgement Zone.
Since I can’t see you, I can’t classify you as anything other than who you are as an individual. I can’t see your clothes, jewelry, tattoos or your car. Nor can I tell what race you are or your social class. There is no judging you based on your relationships, your work, where you came from or where you are going to. Here I am to help you in an unbiased way. I can give you a complete outside point of view, that is relative to only you and your situation.
And finally for number 1 – Phone Readings Create a Strong Intuitive Connection.
Psychic readings by phone take the physical body out of the equation. So, when you are speaking to a psychic by phone, it is a mind to mind connection. The physical realm is removed which gives way to a clean, unbiased, psychic connection between the psychic and their client. Hence, I am able to focus clearly on the unseen, when I can’t actually see you.
Many people wonder, how does it work if I can’t see you? And I think it works better because I can’t see you. Because we are having an undivided, intimate and deeply personal conversation where we are without a doubt in each other’s presence. When you are talking to a loved one over the phone, even though you can’t see them you still know that their essence is there. Their mind shares the same vibration that yours is on. Therefore, Phone readings get you on the same level with your psychic and you connect like you wouldn’t imagine.
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Stop attracting the wrong guys and manifest true love.
People ask me all the time, Why do I attract the wrong guys? And wonder how to finally manifest true love.
As a professional psychic I deal with a lot of love life cases. I see so many women making the same mistakes with men, and they come to me asking why do I attract the wrong guys? They all want to manifest true love, but keep ending up with men that are bad for them.
The truth is, we attract what we think about and dwell upon. If you are dwelling on the misdeeds of a man, then more of that will come to you.
It is easy to focus on the bad things in our environment because that is what we are experiencing. If you are always affirming about how bad men are, thinking about how bad it is, then you are going to get more of that.
For example, say you have problems with guys not texting you back the way you want. That can turn into an idea that ALL guys never text back. When you meet someone new, and they don’t immediately have your same texting style, they are lumped into the category of ALL guys who don’t text back. He becomes in your mind what you expect of him and he becomes just like the rest who don’t text back. You are so sensitive to this now that all you can spot are bad texters, and in a way are actually looking for that quality. You will get what you expect over and over again and men will line up to not text you back.
We are working with the law of attraction all the time. If you are having a string of bad experiences with men, with the same problems over and over, and are wondering, why do I attract the wrong guys? Then it’s a good chance you have set up a negative vibration and are repelling the good guys. Instead of manifesting true love you are attracting the wrong guys.
If you can change your thoughts you can begin to change what you attract. You can manifest true love, but first you need to get real clear on what true love means to you. A good way to start is by looking at what kind of crap you are attracting, and then affirming the opposite.
There is a great exercise that can answer your question of why you are attracting the wrong guys, and put you on the right track for manifesting true love. This exercise can help you figure out what you really want in a relationship and what you truly value. Once you know what you really want and truly value then you can begin to focus on these qualities with a grateful heart, affirming that the right guy with these qualities are on the way. If you expect the best and are grateful for the best before it comes, then the best will come to you before you know it.
You need two pieces of paper and a nice pen. On the first paper we are going to write down a list of undesirable qualities that you have experienced from all of your previous relationships and experiences with men. This is your chance to really complain, look at it, and let it go. Really look at what you are complaining about, what is making you unhappy. What is being unfulfilled in your life. What is it that you are not getting that you really really want? If you are wondering, why am I attracting the wrong guys, let’s look at the qualities you are attracting. This is an ugly list. Make it as ugly as possible. I call it the ugh list. Like, “ugh, not again.”
Being a woman and talking to other unhappy women, I have created a list of some qualities to get you started.
Dishonest, Unfaithful, Boring, Mean, Argumentative, Distant, Broke, Ungrateful, Unattractive, Never Around, Aggressive, Doesn’t Text, Stingy, Disloyal, Jealous, Greedy, Selfish, Crazy Family, Bad Exes, Disrespectful, Doesn’t Like Kids, Bad Communicator, Homeless, Doesn’t Work, Bad Hygiene, Alcoholic/Addict, Depressed.
After you are done, take a deep breath, and be grateful for the clear vision of what you don’t want.
Now, we are going to flip around our first list, and see the type of person we really want. Take the opposite of what you said on your ugh list and put it here on your YES list. Start this list by writing at the top of it; “I am so happy and grateful NOW that I am with a man who is…
Some opposites from my initial Ugh list would be….
Honest, Faithful, Interesting, Sweet, Kind, Present, Wealthy. Grateful, Attractive, Always Here, Calm, Likes to Text, Generous, Loyal, Trusting, Giving, Altruistic, Loves Kids, Drama-free, Respectful, Values Family, Great Communicator, Has Their Finances in Order, Responsible, Clean, Sober, Happy.
That is a much better list. Your new list should naturally be in line with your values, and should reveal to you what matters to you in a real relationship. It represents the key things that you are yearning for in a relationship. This is the start of manifesting true love. The start is figuring out what it is that you really want. Sometimes we have to figure out what we really want by figuring out what we don’t want. As you write down each concept, imagine yourself being bathed in it. If you write down you want him to be a great communicator, visualize being loved and listened to and having long passionate conversations. If you wrote down you want him to love kids, visualize you and “him” in that scenario. Bathe yourself in ideas of love and acceptance from the one who is coming towards you even now.
After you are done finding out what you truly value, take your first list and get rid of it. Tear it up, flush it, burn it. It’s not for you anymore.
Next, choose the top 5-10 qualities from your second list that matter to you and write out and create an affirmation. It should go something like this: I am so happy and grateful now that I am in a committed relationship with a man who is honest, faithful, respectful and who values my family. He is a great communicator, has his finances in order, and shows that he loves me everyday. Your affirmation can be as long or as short as you like. Write it out everyday imagining that this person is in your presence. Don’t try to force these qualities on someone else. Just be grateful and confident that you are going to be treated so well in the future.
These are the first few steps to take when you want to stop attracting the wrong guys and begin to manifest true love. Subscribe to my blog to learn of the next steps that you can take to make your ideal love life your own.
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Paradigm Shift October 11-13
Join me in watching Paradigm Shift. It’s a 2 1/2 day live stream event where we learn how to change our programming and break through old paradigms with Prosperity, Law of Attraction teacher Bob Proctor.
Click here to learn more about Paradigm Shift this October.
Art of Goal Creation
Learning how to attain goals is one thing, but learning how to create them is even more valuable. Because if you are going to attain something, it better be worth it.
I went to this goal achieving seminar in January, and it was amazing, this is the second time it is being held and I am for sure going to watch it Live Stream.
If you are serious about living your dreams, but don’t know where to start. This is a great place to start.
This seminar is created by Bob Proctor, prosperity teacher and star of The Secret. He is my mentor. He opens his mouth and diamonds fall out.
Register today. It is held live in LA for $1,500 In October. You can view the live stream for only $197. I’m really excited about it.
Ok, so here’s the link to sign up!
See you there!
xoxo
How to Become Successful and the Journey to Riches #1
My purpose here is to show you how to become successful in life in all areas and enjoy fantastic riches.
But first I want to share with you a bit of my story. I don’t come from a particularly glamorous background. Raised by a single Mom, in what we used to lovingly call the “armpit” of Los Angeles. I was super cool, and graduated high school early with a proficiency certificate. It was a glorified High School Dropout hall pass. My last semester of High School, I got straight F’s. I am so serious. I certainly didn’t know how to become successful.
It was at 16 when I graduated, smoking pot, a rebel, my mother disagreed with everything I did, and looking back – I was really privileged in a public school sort of way, but really, I did throw it all away.
I can respect now my teachers, and I try to live without regrets.
There were all kinds of kids in my High School, from very poor to very rich. I fell somewhere in the middle to pretty f’n poor range.
So, I asked myself why are so many kids poor, and only the chosen few who are rich?
I wanted to hang with the rich kids, and I did, but I never felt like one of them, and I never really was. Because I was always told that we must try to act rich, to pretend, which is great advice, but when your a kid, you are learning to pretend that you are someone who you could never be.
To the Rich Kid: If you were the rich kid growing up, I apologize for calling you out. It’s not your fault you grew up rich.
So this poor kid left her la Dee da high school in LA – and what did I do? I went off and became a professional psychic. That may seem like an odd jump, but it was more of a logical progression.
See, when I was a kid, every spring time, my family, who were then actors, would join a fair, and we would run the game booths. Hard child labor for sure, but I learned many valuable skills like how to throw an axe. On my breaks I would go hang out with the gypsies, they mystified me and I learned a lot in that tent.
I was primed as a child to be what is called a “carnie” a carnival worker.
The money is good, “lot’s of cash”, that in the end is blown very quickly. My folks blew their cash on coke – and in hindsight, can I really blame them? It was the 80’s. This is not how to be successful.
Our world, and what we know and how we perceive ourselves, is built up within us over many years, but mainly in childhood.
There isn’t any wonder why I quit high school to run off to join a band of psychics. I was a carnie, it is in my makeup, so obviously I would attract more of the same. To be honest, being a carnie is pretty gross. Never any running water. When I hit the age of 10 I finally opted to skip the nasty portopottys and long lines and find a nice bush instead. Carnie hack. I told you. Super gross.
Now I am not saying that if you were born poor you stay poor….
It is quite the opposite. Because, I have to say that my story is a wild success story, but it’s not a unique story. There are immigrants from all over the world that come to America, with nothing but a pair of shoes and a last name, that experience wild success. Why?
I promise you, their success was not based on luck, it happened because they had a vision, and a plan. They knew how to be successful.
I’m going to reveal to you a proven path to riches that you never even dreamed of and how YOU can become successful.
First things first. You need to get clear with where you are at right now. Like a you are here mark on a map.
You need to ask yourself the right questions, like what is the most money you have ever made in a year? Now, how much money do you want to make? Ok, let’s be honest, is that really A LOT of money? Like Kardashian money? Why not? They are the same as any of us.
Be on the look out for a revealing questionnaire, that exposes what your true potential really is. And I promise you, it’s infinite.
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Life is Bigger
“We’re bigger than we ever dreamed.” – Lorde
If life is bigger than we have ever dreamed…. then think even bigger!
We are like so freakin divine it would blow your mind, there is no comprehension. So no matter how wild your fantasy of your ideal life is – you are even bigger and greater than that!
Many things make your world small.
When your perceived problems are all that you consider, then that limits your thoughts and deadens your potential.
When all you think about is the drama around you, you enhance, give energy to, and continue to give birth to even more drama.
You attract what you think about. That’s the “secret” – so when all you think about is drama, who said this, who didn’t do that, or how bad I feel, then you will get more of that in your life.
If you are coming from a place where your thoughts boil down to – “Why doesn’t he love me, will I have enough money to cover all of my bills, all of my friends are fighting, and I hate all of those people that make my life miserable”… If that is where your state of mind is, then you will be alone with no money and no friends and surrounded by people you don’t like.
You have attracted your circumstances. These are your Results. And when you think about how crappy your results are, no matter what you do, things, they just never get better.
No wonder why you don’t think you are very big. 😭
You are not your results. Your results – crappy everything – or unremarkable everything, is just a product of your thoughts.
So, what if you changed what you think about? Do you think that might change your results?
I am reminded of the St. Francis prayer, where he says, “for it is in giving that we receive – “ The idea is, when you focus on loving others, your focus will return love in your life. When you focus on giving, loving, understanding, pardoning… then your life will reflect that goodness in your Results.
A simple change in attitude can begin to shift your results immediately. Usually it’s temporary, but there are ways to make the shift permanent, in a future post I will tell you how.
The bigger secret is, you can harness the laws of the universe, and create whatever you desire, and live the life you always wanted. ✨🌴
With a simple shift in your perspective you can have a life that is better, and more beautiful… where people are nice, and money is abundant, and you are happy and loved.
Where you don’t have to walk home limping from a hard days work, or be caught worrying about how you are going to pay the rent.
Where you never have to worry if you are loved or not.
The question is – what is it that you really want? 🤔
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Product Review – Online Allure
I purchased a copy of Digital Romance’s “Online Allure” program to audit as a potential course for my clients… and to TRY because I have been looking for love for a long time too. I believe that Online Dating is the undeniable wave of the future for dating. If you are not with the program, there are a ton of single men online looking for love. Perhaps looking for you, and for me!
But, the dating profile can stand in the way of finding the right guy. It is seriously true! If your profile is crap, it is a lot harder to find the right guy. So, this program, “Online Allure” is all about that. It is all about setting up your dating profile the best way possible to attract the right guys and repel the creeps.
After trying this program, and I want to share my HONEST opinion of it. And tell you my results! I want to tell you the good, bad, and the down right UGLY that made me almost turn off the program. But I stuck with it and had fantastic results, that I want to share with you.
I am Psychic Stina, and for a long time I have coached and read for single women. As an award winning psychic, I work worldwide, with clients that range from Movie Stars to Politicians, Sport Stars to Professionals. But honestly, I love the love readings. To get down and dirty and talk about the boys and about love, and feelings, and romance. About the guys you meet online!
I have been looking for the right course to promote and provide for my single clients. All of my single clients get the same advice, to get online immediately if they are serious about changing their path when it comes to love. In fact, I am now only taking clients who are actively dating online. If you would like to schedule a reading, contact me here.:
Now for my big secret is I am also single and have been looking online for awhile now. I got out of a “meh” relationship awhile back, and dating has been less of a priority for me. Knowing intensely the challenges, I haven’t wanted to deal with it. Guys messaging only for sex, or you start talking to a guy you really like and one day he just disappears. These things can turn you off if you are trying online dating for the first time!
You have to fail your way to success though!
Can you imagine the type and amount of rejection that guys go through? Online Dating is a process.
I have seen my clients having trouble with their profiles. And my profile could use some help too, because all I get are a bunch of douchebags and fetish freaks. I have tried products from Digital Romance before, their “Text Your Ex Back” and “Text the Romance Back” and I thought they very good. So when I found out that Michael Fiore also did an Online Dating program, “Online Allure”, I knew I had to check it out. And…
I didn’t love all of it.
But I’m glad I stuck with it, because I instantly had a shift in the type of men who were messaging me and asking me out.
I am going to tell you what I liked and what I didn’t like. then it’s up to you if you would like to purchase it. Here’s the disclaimer, if you do buy I will make a commission. I am so satisfied with the results, I am offering it for sale with the links in this review.
Who is this program for?
All singles can benefit from taking this course, absolutely! But, this program is geared more towards women in their thirties and forties, and he includes advice for older women.
I am a woman of size, overweight, and online dating is scary and hard when you are fat. That is just a reality. Dating is hard if you feel as if you aren’t pretty or perfect enough when you put yourself out there. A society where people have to feel that way sucks.
Michael Fiore, in Online Allure, handles imperfections in a really great way. This program can help a lot of people, who don’t fit the mold of perfect everything.
The second module of this program is horrible and I would advise that anyone with a less than perfect self-esteem to not listen to it. This program starts off with an interview with an Online Dating Master and Catch of the Day, “Jake”. Well, I would like to say that “Jake” is a raging a-hole. If I ever came across him in real life, I would probably slap him and stomp on his foot.
Jake’s take on Online Dating, is that if you aren’t perfect, then don’t go for the perfect guys… like him. He says to date someone who is like you. I hated his advice, and actually turned off the record and finished the recording by reading the transcript.
There was one thing that I did get from his interview and it was this. He says that men will like your profile, and perhaps go back and view your profile so that you can see. This is apparently an invitation to come look at his profile and interact with him. I didn’t realize that men flirt online this way. So if you notice a man looking at your profile, especially more than once, be sure to say hello, because he is sending you a message.
However, if I could remove this interview from the program I would, because the rest of the course is AMAZING. Michael Fiore has great advice. You don’t have to stomach this recording, you can skip it and just read the transcripts. It’s long anyway and the guy is annoying.
Now for the good parts of the program.
His main advice on how not to attract douchebags who are only looking for sex, was to take off all skin and mention of sex off your profile. That seemed really extreme to me, and was really scary to do. I have found that skin gets you messages, most of them creepy but I thought that’s what you just have to deal with. But with the method that is put out through “Online Allure” you don’t have to put up with that crap, well, at least not as much. I followed his advice laid out in the course exactly, and you know what? I still got messages, and this time from different men. Very different men.
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His advice on how to write a profile is amazing, he breaks it down to make you look great on paper. He tells you what to put in and what to take out, with great examples. My dating profile has been transformed. Seriously transformed. He shows you the right kind of language to speak that will keep a man interested. Plus he tells you exactly what to write to repel jerks who are only looking for sex. He has this great line, that basically says that if you come looking for sex I will make fun of you to my friends. Which I thought was funny.
He goes over the call to action, always have to make the guy answer a question or do something to prove that he has read your profile. Now, Michael Fiore takes a pretty severe stance on men who have crappy profiles, or who don’t follow direction. He says to do stuff like block them and not write them back. I don’t know if I would be THAT extreme, but he does have a point.
So I put a call to action in my profile asking for men to tell me a clean joke. And it worked. Now I have attentive, attractive men, messaging me with funny jokes. I have to admit that is pretty romantic.
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His profile transformations are pretty stunning. He can take an average, or rambling, or clueless profile and turn it into something great.
He also has great advice on approaching men that makes a lot of sense.
My favorite part of the program is where he sits you down and makes you figure out exactly what you want. He calls it painting the target on the wall. This is something I have advised for all my clients, but Michael Fiore puts it in a very nice light. First you figure out where you are first, before you can figure out who and what is right for you. He then takes your through the process of identifying the perfect guy for you. And it has nothing to with what “Jake” had to say. I hate that guy.
Okay… and result time. I immediately met a man, who is very attractive, and who is very into me. He loves what I have to say and we can talk for hours. He is very passionate, and we are on the same wavelength on everything. He is very respectful, and is the most respectful man I have ever met online. He is also accepting of my size, and it’s not even an issue. He marks off all of my boxes and I am very excited about my future. After I painted my target on the wall, and optimized my profile to find the perfect guy, I had great results.
I am not going to say that my results are typical because at the end of the day I really don’t know. But I promise, if you get this program you will get an increase in interaction with quality men who can meet you where you are at in life now. And if it doesn’t work it has a guarantee on it and you can get your money back. And that’s it.
I highly recommend this product now for ALL of my single clients, and you can click on the links to be directed to a sales page where you can purchase it.
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Meeting Someone Online is a Process
You may ask yourself, how long does it take to start a relationship when meeting someone online? Well, first, you must understand that Online Dating is a process. Therefore, you have to get out there and ask questions like:
How do I write a great dating profile?
What are the best pictures to put out there?
How do I respond to messages?
And Next you must ask yourself: How do I figure out the courting process for meeting someone online?
Do I just give him my phone number or do I wait for him to ask for it?
How often can I text?
Is talking on the phone even a thing anymore?
Furthermore, there are the actual dates when meeting someone from online:
Do I or don’t I sleep with him?
Then you have the follow up the next day…
When do I ask if we are committed…
Who says I love you first…
and the list goes on and on.
This whole process of meeting someone online is not just the profile and pictures and clothes.
Because you need to REFINE yourself and become your best self for your ideal partner. Online Dating helps you refine your life because you start to learn really quickly what you do or don’t like about people you date. Kissing frogs isn’t a bad thing, it keeps you from not marrying one!
Refining oneself takes time and effort and even investment. If you want the best dating life and the relationship of your dreams you will have to take action, and I think going online is the best way to do that.
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Are you putting in more effort than everyone else?
There is a communication break down and you are feeling as if you are putting in way more effort than the other person. This can be in a working situation where you have co-workers and you are pulling way more weight than everyone else. Everyone relies on you and you have no one to rely on. It is hard being the go to girl when you have no one to go to. You wish they would hire you an assistant, but you don’t want to replace yourself. You enjoy the problem solving and enjoy being helpful and busy. You meet lots of people and everyone loves you. You love your job, but you’re kinda stressed out, and wished you had more help and more recognition.
It can happen in relationships as well. You feel as if you are putting in more effort than the other. Maybe you are the one who is always initiating conversation, suggesting things to do. It’s hard to get your partner to initiate anything. You feel as if they are starting to distance themselves. It makes you stop and begin thinking about your situation, how can you turn this around, but if you do how can you change and can you change?! All you know is that it makes you stressed out and you would like your partner to initiate more and help out in the relationship, and you wish you had more recognition and attention.
I would say that this is a common problem at this time in history. There are many people that are carrying all of the weight in their situations. I would even dare to say that most have at least one relationship, be it work, relationship, family, friendships, where they feel as if they are carrying more weight. But then I would even dare to say, that we all have at least one, or more than one, relationships or situations where you are definitely carrying even half your weight. We have many relationships where we let other people carry the burden. I think sometimes we can be selfish and not even know it. Does it ever happen when you do something and then later regret it? Like being rude to someone. It comes up in your mind and feels out of place. We don’t even realize that we are being selfish. Sometimes we get confused about which relationships are ones where we are meant to be of service. Where in life do we get to love? Where in life do we get to help? I guarantee those opportunities exist in everything you get to do while you are on this earth.
You have many decisions that you get to make like getting into which relationships, and choosing where you work. You are making these decisions, pledges really, to be selfless. And this is a noble idea, but then you can start to twist it. Are these the people that you want to make that pledge to? Of course we can be selfless in all of our relationships if we are to think of the other person, but in doing so, we must also be honest with ourselves and acknowledge that you have a true purpose and that you must stay on track with that. Everything that you do has to align with getting what you really want. But most people, maybe even you, hey, maybe even me, struggle with knowing what we really want, and wonder why we get the life we get when we want so much more. Hey, there is this whole other world that exists in your life, you are just accustomed to believing in different things. It is your programming. Your subconscious mind draws to itself your ideas that are implanted in it. This is not all bad, because I think we all have our noble abilities. But the programming also determines the level of your wealth and the health of your relationships! So your programming may be saying to you that you are having an unhealthy relationship, that you are putting in so much work and are getting nothing in return. When in fact that is not the case at all, and you haven’t stopped to recognize the good that the other person brings to you and to the relationship. Everyone cares in different ways, and I think we all forget to acknowledge that, or even knows that. If it is a truly abusive relationship and leans that direction, that is another pattern that needs to be broken and is something that you have attracted to yourself and you need to think your way out of that situation and raise your life condition to attract better things. But hey. What about this job. Is there some other way you would like to save the world, is there something that you would like to do but have some crazy idea that you can’t do it. Don’t you know! You can do ANYTHING!